In those rare moments during the stress of our daily lives, a question arises : What would I regret not doing if I died tonight? Join us on a journey of self-discovery as we discuss the importance of understanding life’s temporary nature.
On the time of death bed generally people recall these 15 regrets
1. I wish I wouldn’t have compared myself to others.
Comparing self to others is something I regret. No one is exactly the same as another person.
2. I wish I’d taken action.
I regret not taking action. There is no right way to do things. Many people give up because they are afraid that things may not happen as soon as they would like. What’s worse than living your life doing things you don’t want to do?
3. I wish I’d tuned the world out more.
I wish I had ignored other people’s opinions more. People will constantly try to define who you are or should be, but you should not let them. You are the only person whose affirmation matters. You will greatly regret spending your life trying to please everyone.
4. I wish I didn’t wait to “start it tomorrow.”
I regret continuously putting things off for tomorrow. Excuses are easy to make. This is a common reason for regret on one’s deathbed.
5. I wish I’d taken more chances.
I wish I’d taken more chances. When facing death, the fear of rejection or failure fades. You will regret not asking that beautiful lady out on a date, not applying for a job because you realized underqualified, or failing to start a business you assumed in. These regrets will be heavier on your shoulders than the experience of failure and learning.
6. I wish I would have kept going.
I wish I had continued. Even if you have the bravery to take chances, failure is still possible. However, this failure becomes painful when you choose to give up. You have failed when you let the pressure of falling short overcome the passion for your project.
7. I wish I’d told others how much I love them.
I regret not expressing my love for others enough. Everyone wants to feel appreciated, but very few actually express how much they care.
8. I wish I could find contentment with what I already possess.
We are always looking for more, whether it be money, popularity. Only a few people can take a step back. What they have is enough. It’s nice to want more in life, but also important to truly respect what you have.
9. I wish I prioritized my physical well-being better.
Making healthy choices is important in all aspects of life, apart of physical exercise. Avoiding unhealthy food, refraining from multiple cigarettes daily, and not drinking excessively.
10. I wish I had been more attentive to others’ advice.
Everyone believes they are right all the time and they try to impose on others. It’s acceptable to have opinions. It’s more important to listen carefully and decide your own whether to accept or not. Even if you disagree with someone’s point of view, try to listen to them carefully without making judgments.
11. I wish I had explored more through travel.
People frequently believe that “traveling” means going to a different place and spending lots of money. Don’t stay at home because you don’t understand what it means to travel.
12. I wish I maintained better connections with my friends.
It’s common for people to lose touch with their friends. Often it’s because of a mindset, “If they didn’t reach out to me, they must not miss me.” If you genuinely miss someone, chances are they feel the same way. Be the first to call, write, or visit. You’ll be glad you did.
13. I wish I was more aware of the real world around me.
People on their deathbeds rarely regret not being more aware of the real world. It is essential to focus on the real world rather than engaging in social media. Virtual connections are less significant than the people we meet in real.
14. I wish I had more confidence in myself.
One of the biggest mistakes people make is lack of confidence. It’s a shame because believing in yourself is easier than you think. Just need your worth and capabilities.
15. I wish I ran with a better crowd.
Believe it or not, the people you surround yourself with have a direct impact on you. If you associate with negative influenced people, you’re likely to adopt those character. Choose wisely spend time with those who challenge, encourage, and inspire you to grow.
SELF ASSESSMENT AND SELF IMPROVEMENT PART-3
Embracing Genuine Connections
Discover the importance of building genuine connections and relationships with people. Consider the people in your life who have a special place in your heart. Find people to whom the memories you would like to share with them.
Uncovering Unfulfilled Dreams and Aspirations
Discover your desires, whether they be to pursue a long-held interest, reconnect with a loved one, or go on an exciting new journey.
Everyone, without exception, will die at some point. Life is full of ups and downs, valuable experiences, hardships, victories, disappointments, and moments of reflection.
There had plenty of opportunities to demonstrate your abilities. Life has been a rollercoaster of experiences, with successes, losses, and failures. If I kept living, it would just be a repeat of everything I’ve already gone through.
Last line
Fortunately, each day has an opportunity for improvement. Every day serves as a chance to alter the course of your life.
Reference from the beautiful article written by Kyle B. Hart
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